Charge!

Healthy people confront their issues;

and confront them again;

and again.

Unhealthy people resign.

Trouble

Know your emotions, yes!, be in touch with your emotions, yes!, but if your emotions alone determine your behavior, you’ll get yourself in a heap of trouble.

A Mirror

A lot of us have a hard time looking at ourselves.  One cure for this is that when you look at others, and especially if you see their moral failings, that serves as a mirror to yourself.